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to bear; to stand; to endure; to put up with
to restrain; to control; to keep a check on
to forgive; to put up with; to pardon
「堪える」 has another reading with different meanings.
日本のこの建物は震度七の地震に堪える設計だ。
This building is designed to withstand earthquakes.
芸術家として鑑賞に堪える作品を作りたい。
I want to create a work fit for appreciation.
何年も使って使用に堪えないほど古くなった。
It became so old that it's unfit for use.