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to discuss
to find fault with; to criticize; to criticise
細かいことをあげつらうな。
Don't nitpick about small things.
他人の欠点をあげつらうのは良くない。
It's not good to criticize others' flaws.
過去の失敗をあげつらわないで。
Don't keep bringing up past mistakes.